How To Become A Strong Confident Woman
Patricia Love

You are already strong, you just need to unlock your strength. So in asking How do I become a strong confident woman, your first step would be, saying to yourself” I Choose” to be strong and confident. By doing this you have started to turn the key to unlock your power from within.

“That’s it” you say? No, but it is one of the most important steps to becoming a strong and confident woman.

Don’t Be Afraid

One thing I do want to convey is “Do not be afraid.” What do I mean by that? I mean, many women hold back in becoming confident and strong because of what society has portrayed them as. You know the stereotype. “Strong women are overbearing, ruthless, driven, and that other word B______?’ In reality, a strong, confident woman, is a woman in control of her own life, her money, her business, her relationships., yet she is compassionate, feels hard, and has emotions. This is not controlling, it’s being in control of your own actions and reactions and the choices you make for your life.

Each time a woman stands up for herself, she stand up for all women
Each time a woman stands up for herself, she stand up for all women

It’s The Time Of “The Woman”

Becoming a strong and confident woman is a path that every day will bring you more fulfillment and peace from within. There is no better feeling than empowering and loving who you are every day. The actions you take today will become a ripple effect on other women and young girls that follow. It is our responsibility to stand up for them, and give them the strength and confidence to stand up for themselves. This is the time of “The Woman.” It’s time you are heard, because you matter, all women’s voices matter.

Putting It All Together

  • Realize ‘YOU CAN” and remind yourself every day and night that you will become the woman you are proud of.
  • Acknowledge and write down your self-doubts and fears of becoming strong and confident. When you acknowledge your imperfections (and we all have them) you can begin to manage them and move forward.
  • Visualize who you want to be, see yourself in the role you want to play, Look in the mirror and tell yourself, you CAN do this.
  • Self-care is a huge part of becoming stronger and more confident. Take time for yourself daily, to reflect on who you are and who you want to become. Take a walk in nature alone, it is a good place to reflect.
  • Journal, if writing is your thing, then write down your feelings daily, be honest with yourself. The more honest and truthful you are, the more inner peace you will begin to feel.
  • Listen to your inner voice. Not someone else’s, A strong woman doesn’t need a net when she walks on a tightrope, she knows she will make it across without it.
  • Read positive articles and books daily. This helps you to remove self-doubt. So subscribe to a positive blog, or write some positive affirmations to say to yourself daily.

Becoming strong and confident is empowering, and what better legacy can you leave then being true to yourself. You will show other women that they too have the power within to be strong, confident, and in control of their lives. Some women think of themselves as a doormat, but guess what, that doormat is removable and can be picked up and thrown in the garbage and replaced with a beautiful image because #IChoose to redesign the life that I was born to live.

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As an active Realtor®, and in sales for 45 years in Washington State, Patricia coaches women in sales to “Refuel” by turning their “I Can’t” into “I Can.” She interrupts the negative behaviors that have sabotaged them and helps them create a new path towards positive results. Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.”

Patricia’s own story of trauma, death, and a slew of bad decisions as a young adult, forced her to flip her own inner script, or face alternative consequences. By interrupting and healing the negative behaviors that sabotaged her, she was able to find the courage, and new found energy to move forward in all areas of her life. She did this with the action of five words.

These inspiring words created her Exclusive Diamond Method”, as Patricia believes we are all a diamond in the rough, just waiting to shine! So, begin the healing, and shine bright like a diamond.

Contact Patricia to start the new life so you too, will shine!

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