Why is it so hard to acknowledge our imperfections, our mistakes, to be truthful with ourselves, not to anyone else, just ourselves alone in our own rooms? Why are we so scared to acknowledge our own flaws?
Is it because we might find out we are not perfect, that we are human, that you may think you are not deserving, or you have failed? That you might not live up to other’s expectations and just aren’t good enough? Or maybe you don’t want to admit to yourself, that we might be flawed. Would you rather live with your head in the sand, and hope it goes away. Well yes, you can do that, but it just makes matters worse in the long run. We are all perfectly flawed! So guess what, you are normal.
Unfortunately, our imperfections or negative behaviors never go away by themselves, in fact by not acknowledging them, they follow us around throughout the years, and affect everything you do. When you get angry and yell at your best friend. When you can’t lose weight, and you blame it on others. Or you keep sabotaging relationships and your career. it is because you haven’t acknowledged those negative behaviors you have, and each and every one of us has them..:)
So, get in line, none of us, let me repeat that…NONE OF US ARE PERFECT. We are all flawed with frailties, Imperfections, and negative behaviors. But, the way out is acknowledging them. Because when we do, we release negative energy and open up new opportunities, and peace within.
The problem is:
If you don’t acknowledge it, you can’t FIX it.
So here are some ideas on how you can start acknowledging those internal imperfections
- Sit quietly and decide, I want to better myself, have a happy life, so I will be truthful with me.
- Acknowledge what is bothering you, we all have things that bother us, but if you don’t acknowledge them they will affect your future…So dig deep.
- Write your problems out, things you want to fix, your imperfections. (it’s OK to have a long list of issues…we will resolve one at a time, You should have seen my list, 2 pages!!) Here are some EX: “I get mad easily” I am judgemental” “I am in debt” “I am overweight” “I am not communicating with my partner” ” I get overlooked in my career” that is just some, as I said dig deep.
- look over that list…Laugh! and say, I guess I’m not perfect, I’m human, at least I know what I need to work on. It’s in print!
- Celebrate yourself, You just took the first step towards taking control of your life.
The Benefits of acknowledging our imperfections
With all this deep soul searching for your imperfections and mistakes, I bet you’re tired! I know I was when I made my list. It is worth it though, now you can begin to move forward. The benefit of doing this exercise is that you can now, take back your power. These imperfections, flaws, and or baggage have been holding you back from your future. They have been stealing the energy that you need to use for the present and the future.
It’s not as scary as it feels, and the outcome will outweigh any negatives. Do you need to work through them? Yes! But now that you have acknowledged them, and you can begin to fix them.
Patricia Love, The Rah Rah Coach!!
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Patricia Love, The “RahRah” Coach, that’s me, a blogger of Life, motivational and empowerment coach for women, who flip their inner script from “I can’t” Into “I can.” I want women to break through any blocks that have sabotaged their pocketbook and life, so they can live the life they were born to live every day.
After several life traumas and challenges 12 years ago, I was forced to either
give up or get up.
So, as I look back now, I feel lucky I was able to draw on the motivational books and tips that I had studied over the years. But I hadn’t put them to daily use, until that fateful day, where I knew that I had no choice,
or I would end up as another statistic.
Hard work and personal dedication brought me to where I am today. I want to share what I have learned with women who are struggling to find their personal power through compassion and accountability.
so, I am on a mission to motivate and empower you through the skills and techniques I have learned, so you will be armed with tools to use daily, as you face life’s challenges. I do this through my 5 Diamonds support.
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