A Letter To My Daughter About Being A Woman
Patricia Love

A collection of thoughts and inspirations, written by Patricia Love to accompany girls on their journey into adulthood. If you would like to learn more about your inner power and feel feminine energy in all its glory, this piece of writing is for you.

Disclaimer…I don’t have a daughter, but I wish my mother would have written this to me.

A Letter To My Daughter About Being A Woman

Dear Daughter, I want to tell you how immensely proud I am of the woman that you are growing up to be. Being a woman is both a wonderful and challenging experience; from an early age, we must fight for our rights and strive against sexism in all its forms. Even though at times it may seem impossible, we can find strength through our sisterhood and together empower each other so that no one sides with prejudice or oppression. Recognizing the beauty in ourselves and others lies not just on the outside but also within, being proud of who we truly are, takes courage, beyond measure. So today my sweet daughter, I write this letter as your reminder: never forget who you are capable of becoming — stay fearless in owning your truth and always walk tall with confidence!

“You Are A Warrior, From The Start”

To my beautiful daughter, I want to make sure you know just how strong and powerful you are. You are an amazing warrior, with the courage and strength to take on anything that comes your way. Every day is a new opportunity to tackle the world head-on and make your mark. Believe me when I say you can do anything and everything you set your mind to; just have faith in yourself and never be afraid to be bold. Step up with the courage of a brave warrior and show everyone who you truly are!

“You Don’t Have To Be Great Friends With Everyone”

Being friends with everybody is an admirable quality and it’s natural to want to be liked by everyone. But it’s ok if that doesn’t happen! Remember that you don’t have to be great friends with every single person you meet – not everyone needs to be your friend, and that’s completely alright. Focus on the people who care about you and your relationship with them will keep getting stronger. And if someone doesn’t show you respect or kindness, choose yourself and stay away from toxic relationships. Sometimes walking away from situations is necessary for your mental health and well-being. The key is to remember that it’s okay to say no, especially when something doesn’t feel right for you.

“Happiness Is Not A Guarantee”

My beloved daughter, while I wish nothing but joy and security for you in life, I want you to know that happiness is not something that can be taken for granted. Life has its highs and lows, and sometimes it pays to plan for the worst and hope for the best. You will find pleasure in pursuing your goals and dreams, but don’t expect those experiences to save you from other, less desirable moments. Acknowledge when times are tough and understand that everyone must bear their crosses along the journey. But if you approach every situation with an open heart, courage and resilience will follow suit; weathering any storm no matter how intense or prolonged – that’s what real happiness is!

“You Will Experience Successes, But You Will Also Fail Miserably At Times”

An important lesson to learn in life is that failure and success are two sides of the same coin. Personal growth isn’t possible without making mistakes, and while successes can make us feel as though we’ve achieved something great, it’s important to remember that failure doesn’t make you any less capable or talented. You will experience amazing highs, but don’t be discouraged when you feel like things have gone wrong. These failures will make you stronger in the long run and help you appreciate your successes even more.

“Everyone Isn’t Going To Like You And That’s OK”

To my wonderful daughter, listen to me: the truth is that everyone isn’t going to like you and that’s alright. It is a hard pill to swallow, I know, but sometimes it’s ok to have people who don’t approve or understand you. Being different means that not everyone will be on board with your ideas and actions; this doesn’t make them bad people. Rather, it’s part of being a unique individual amongst many! Good or bad opinions about you won’t define your worth so stay focused on what matters and continue making wise choices.

“Beauty Is Skin Deep And What Makes You Beautiful Are Your Qualities As A Person”

To my lovely daughter: Don’t ever forget that beauty is more than what you see on the outside. The qualities that make you unique and special are from within, such as your compassion, your strength, and your creativity. Just remember that what truly makes you beautiful is not something that can be seen with the eye — it’s in your heart and soul. Your inner beauty will always shine brighter than any physical feature!

“You Can Make Mistakes And Keep Going”

As your parent, I want you to always remember that you can make mistakes and still keep moving forward. It’s important to take risks and try new things because these are the experiences that will help guide you to reaching your fullest potential. The beauty of life is that it gives us opportunities to learn and grow each day, no matter how many missteps we might take. Whenever you experience a setback or undesired outcome, draw on your strength and never give up – it’s those moments that create incredible experiences in the long run.

“Confidence Comes With Age”

To my daughter, I want to tell you that confidence is one of the most important traits a person can possess. It’s something that increases with age and experience – when you have faced certain challenges and worked hard, those successes build your brave mentality. Just like an avalanche, each success builds on the last success until there are positive results left over from all your efforts. Then you come to realize that it isn’t necessarily perfect results that create confidence in yourself, but rather the commitment you put into trying things out and the consistency with which you persevere. So my dearest daughter, follow your dreams with elegance; greatness is within reach!

“You Are Not Responsible For The Happiness Of Others”

Hey, kiddo. You won’t always make other people happy with what you do or say, and that’s okay—because it’s not your job too. You are responsible for taking care of yourself and only yourself. Don’t let anyone box you in by trying to make you feel guilty because they’re disappointed in the choices that you’ve made. Always remember, eventually at the end of the day, no one can make someone else happy—it is an internal task that everyone must take on willingly!

“Fearlessness Isn’t The Absence Of Fear”

My darling daughter, when I look at you and see how full of life and curiosity you are, it’s easy to forget that fear can be a great roadblock. But it doesn’t have to be – true fearlessness means having the courage to confront those fears, rather than avoiding them! It means digging deep for strength even when things seem impossible. It’s about using your voice no matter how much it shakes and taking ownership over your choices – these attributes will take you far in life. So when doubts start to creep in, remember that fearlessness is not an absence of fear but rather the strength to move forward despite it. You have that inside of you!

and remember, I will always be there… in your heart…I Love You.

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As an active Realtor®, and in sales for 45 years in Washington State, Patricia coaches women in sales to “Refuel” by turning their “I Can’t” into “I Can.” She interrupts the negative behaviors that have sabotaged them and helps them create a new path towards positive results. Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.”

Patricia’s own story of trauma, death, and a slew of bad decisions as a young adult, forced her to flip her own inner script, or face alternative consequences. By interrupting and healing the negative behaviors that sabotaged her, she was able to find the courage, and new found energy to move forward in all areas of her life. She did this with the action of five words.

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