Everyone knows someone who seems to be carefree no matter what happens. Someone who doesn’t give much importance to outside circumstances like money, looks, social status, etc.
Positive people seem to know exactly what they’re doing, which shows through their actions. They have a leadership presence. They are confident, happy, and accessible. It begs the question, “What’s their secret?”
Well, it isn’t luck. It’s the benefit of confidence! Confident people live free from self-doubt because they believe in themselves and trust the process of life.
It is not like positive people don’t have anything to worry about, but they choose to be positive and look at things with a smile.
The freedom that comes from being an autonomous person is so deeply and entirely something we should all strive for.
Freedom to Be Who You Are, Unapologetically
Think about those moments when we are immersing ourselves in whatever we’re doing. When we don’t care if we make mistakes or mess up. We just flow.
That is the kind of life satisfaction that I want to share with you — the kind where you feel alive and unstoppable, and your mental health is top priority.
Confidence brings many successes in life. Financially, emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. It’s the key to unlocking your full potential. It can make your family situations better too because when you are confident and fulfilled, you will have better interactions with family members.
Let me help you develop self-confidence within yourself. How to let go of fear and doubt and embrace your true self. And most importantly, how to keep this mindset.
So let’s begin…
The Source of True Confidence
As a confidence coach, I often get asked, “How do I gain confidence?” and “What makes me confident?” My method is always the same — my five diamond words which I believe are the key to confidence and positive mental health. They are the core of my confidence-building activities.
Let’s examine each of these diamonds individually to discover their significance.
Acknowledgment
If you think you aren’t good enough, then you won’t be. So start by acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses. Then work on improving them. You can’t fix what you don’t acknowledge.
Forgiveness
When you can let go of the past, you can move forward with your life. You don’t need to hold onto all those negative feelings anymore. You don’t need to forget, you just need to forgive in order to take your power back.
Mindset
That friend who always seems so carefree and love doing all kind of social activities is probably so because she has a growth mindset.
When you know who you are deep down inside, you won’t need anyone else’s approval or validation. Instead, you’ll find true happiness within yourself. Start changing how you think. This quote from Wayne Dyer always helps me…Try it. “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
Accountability
Admitting mistakes is an essential part of accountability. It means owning up to your actions and taking responsibility for them.
This is crucial for building confidence and leadership presence. If you fail, then you learn from your mistake and try again. This cycle keeps repeating until you succeed. Hold yourself accountable.
Perseverance
Self-esteem and approval are both essential aspects of life. Combined, they form a powerful force. This is called the “triangle of self-perseveration.”
When balanced correctly, it will boost your mental health and helps you become one of those positive people that you look up to, and who never gives up.
One more: the bonus word is gratitude
This enables you to live in the now and enjoy it. Life satisfaction will come naturally.
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Patricia Love
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