How to build self-confidence back After Being Cheated On
Patricia Love

It’s challenging to regain your confidence after someone has cheated on you. You may feel like you’ve been violated and misplaced your trust. Sadly, these feelings are extremely common for those that have experienced being cheated on.

Many people have experienced this and have come out stronger than ever before. But how do we build self-confidence back after being cheated on? We will talk about the importance of self-esteem and how to build it back up after a traumatic experience like cheating.

Time to Heal

After being cheated on, the first and most important thing to do is to give yourself time to heal. Take some time just for yourself. Get a few days off from work if you need to. You should also avoid social media and any other triggers that might make you feel worse. It’s crucial to do whatever you need to to take care of yourself.

How to build self confidence back after being cheated on.
How to build self confidence back after being cheated on.

Reach Out for Help

Find someone you can put your trust in. Whether it’s a friend, a therapist, or even a hotline, it’s vital to have an outlet to express what you’re feeling. You need to deal with and accept these emotions to move on.

Rediscover Yourself

The process of reclaiming your confidence after being cheated on is not an overnight one. It takes time to rediscover who you are and to remember your worth. However, it is possible to come out of this experience feeling empowered and with higher self-esteem.

Give yourself a reminder of the things that make you unique, and write them down. Then, be around loved ones, family, and friends that lift you up and make you happy. 

Do the small things that make you smile. Remember that you are not defined by what someone else does to you.

Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

You can easily look at another person and their relationship and think that their life is perfect, but the truth is that everyone has their own issues. Just because someone else’s relationship looks perfect doesn’t mean it is.

Embrace the New You

This means coming to terms with what happened and acknowledging that things will never be the same again.

Once you’ve accepted the new you, it’s time to take back your confidence. 

One way to do this is by setting boundaries in your relationships, communicating what you need and expect from your partner, and making it clear that you will not tolerate being treated disrespectfully.

Start Living Again

It’s been said that the best revenge is living well. And, I believe that to be true. After being cheated on, it’s important to reclaim your confidence and start living again.

Forgive yourself. We all make mistakes, and we all deserve second chances. Forgiving yourself will help you to move on and live a happier life.

If you’re finding it hard to trust again after being cheated on, the ConfidentU app will support you by providing personalized coaching and support. 

You’ll be able to work through your feelings and start rebuilding your confidence, one step at a time. Trust yourself—you can do this. For more confidence blogs, click here

You Matter!


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As an active Realtor®, and in sales for 45 years in Washington State, Patricia coaches women in sales to “Refuel” by turning their “I Can’t” into “I Can.” She interrupts the negative behaviors that have sabotaged them and helps them create a new path towards positive results. Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results.”

Patricia’s own story of trauma, death, and a slew of bad decisions as a young adult, forced her to flip her own inner script, or face alternative consequences. By interrupting and healing the negative behaviors that sabotaged her, she was able to find the courage, and new found energy to move forward in all areas of her life. She did this with the action of five words.

These inspiring words created her Exclusive Diamond Method”, as Patricia believes we are all a diamond in the rough, just waiting to shine! So, begin the healing, and shine bright like a diamond.

Contact Patricia to start the new life so you too, will shine!

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